As long as people have existed, we have held others to a standard we ourselves often struggle to meet. We find ourselves prescribing a set of expectations for the world around us while, paradoxically, we frequently falter in our attempts to embody those ideals. This fascinating juxtaposition between our lofty standards and human imperfections raises profound questions about the nature of empathy, self-awareness, and the complex interplay between the standards we set for others and those we set for ourselves. This brings us to the passage where Peter approaches Jesus about the need to forgive, and Jesus opens up to the disciples and all of us the standard for forgiveness.

21 Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times. 23 “Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24 When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. 25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ 34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”

The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Mt 18:21–35.

Peter comes to Jesus questioning how far we must go in forgiving each other. Surely, there must be a limit; we all hope there is a limit for those who perpetually cross the line and transgress. Our thoughts mimic Peter in saying the limit must be a generous seven times, but Jesus replies with a response that scoffs at the thought we could put a limit on the ability to forgive, as he doesn’t just give an alternative number, but instead makes that number so much higher that it equates to an infinite retort. Our ability to forgive should have no bounds because Jesus had no limit to His ability to forgive. Even as the people closed in on Him to bring destruction to His body, Jesus did not stop seeking to bring them back to God. We must go above and beyond for Jesus’ sake and follow His example.

Jesus doesn’t stop the lesson on forgiveness with a number but instead shares a parable for us to fully comprehend how far we must go in forgiving. We are placed in the position of the deeply forgiven. Our debt, created by sin, was colossal, and only the sacrifice of Jesus could fill the chasm created by our indebtedness. However, as Jesus walks among us and looks down on us, we don’t act like forgiven people. Instead, we throw those indebted to us in prison, cast them aside, and treat them as unimportant. Our priorities are making things look right in our eyes rather than offering the same compassion given to us, and we fall short of the example Jesus provides in forgiveness. Jesus issues a warning if we continue to live like that.

Ultimately, we must confront our biases and preconceived notions as we comprehend what it means to live a forgiven life. Jesus calls out to us to bring hope to the hopeless and peace to the world while embracing our mission through the love of God. This mission is challenging for us to fully comprehend if we view the world through our modern lifestyle. So many worldviews have emerged, and it may make our heads spin if we attempt to engage without consulting God. God did not send us to Earth to rule over it or dominate society, but rather, we were given the mission to bring the message of God’s never-ending love and a proclamation of forgiveness from sin. Therefore, we need to engage with the competing worldviews from a position of being a forgiven people and sharing that message of forgiveness and peace with the world.

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I am often asked what describes you, which is a hard answer because sometimes I move in a thousand different directions. Some call me an engineer, others call me pastor, a few call me captain, some call me friend, others call me dad, and one calls me sweetheart. All of these things are descriptors and are accurate, but they don't fully capture me. My favorite place is in the mountains, enjoying the beauty of nature and God's creation, running and hiking around with my family and friends, and taking photos to cement the memories. However, the people that know me the best know that my favorite thing to do is come up with crazy adventures that push the limits of what our minds and bodies can do. My faith in God is important to me and drives me to look at creation the way I do. Because of my faith, I look at these adventures and running races from Half Marathons all the way to 24 hour races, as well as several Obstacle Course Races, as an opportunity to push the body God gave me as an act of worship. Hopefully, someday soon, I look toward running longer races and bigger adventures. My hope is that humanity can understand that the wild is a gift, and we need to care for it and quit destroying it by the way we live.

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